Of Picture Requests & Blind Dates

Look, 1st of all, I don't send out my pictures to people on MSN. I'm not that kinda girl to do so. So if u had requested and I in turn rejected, please don't feel offended by it.

2nd-ly, I'm NOT trying to be perasan here. It's just part of my PRINCIPLE so if you're truly my friend, you'll understand. I've been called 'lansi' etc just because I said I don't send out pictures to people. These people then go on saying, "But you know me mah... I'm your friend wert... why so lansi don't wanna send?" And I continue saying, "I'm sorry i'm really not into sending pictures. It's my principle." The persuasion goes on with not much progress which leads them to being mad at me, thinking i'm some obnoxious biatch.

Please. I've had enough of this crap. I'm not pretty or anything and if u really SEE ME IN REAL LIFE, you wont be asking me for pictures. You wont even be interested in going out with me. And that's the reason i'm glad i have true friends sticking by me no matter how I look like or who I am. So be it. I'm OOGLAY.... You can go around asking other silly girls in MSN for pics but don't insult my principle. FYI I only send to very close friends and people I really trust. Some whom I didn't send to, really understands my situation and wasn't mad at me, which i'm thankful for having them as friends. HUGS...

And to those people who are sending your pictures to other people on the internet, especially to strangers... don't you know it's so dangerous to do so? There are lotsa bad people out there and I could only dread the worst to happen if they have access to your personal pics.

This is esp for the girls... PLEASE BE WISE and think twice before sending your pics to strangers or even going out with them. A lot of rape cases happen when you go on a blind date. Or even with a person you've known for quite some time. Things happened when you least expect it. You might think you know the person, but actually, YOU DON'T.

If you really wanna go meet this particular person, then make sure

a) It's a public place.

b) Your friends and family know where you're going and WHO you're with.

c) You go in groups. If he really objects and just want the both of you together, there's a possibility that he's up to something fishy. They'll alwiz say they don't. C'mon are u really that desperate to go out with this guy? You've gotta be wiser than that !

So please heed my advice and be smart k. Don't be a statistic.